Keyword: «family system»
Self-relation is of key importance for building interpersonal interactions and forming the family system in a married couple. Self – relation is considered in sociology and psychology as an installation formation- a fixed installation, that is, the predisposition or readiness of the subject to interact with the marriage partner and accept the spouse's parents. The structure of self-attitude includes such components as: self-esteem, self-acceptance of their individuality. If the self-relationship of the spouses is in balance, there is a conscious mechanism of personal choice in the family, which ensures the relative stability and autonomy of the personality of each spouse.